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So I watched this at my sister's house on Christmas eve and it opened my eyes to the fact that it is not only me and my friends that go thru this BS about marriage and a decent relationship.But plenty of other women! Please read the comments men left my mind is seriously blown right now. Please Cut and paste the Link into your browser.


http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshhLJWM5k2Og6Y5FU9h

Thanks,
Candice

Clubbing Days ( A trip down Memory lane )

So I am work and the radio station I listen to just played Drop down and get your eagle on :) By Nelly Awwww that brings me back to nights at the Roxy's with the girlies. So many good memories! For example Being so drunk I had to catch a ride with someone and go back and get my car the next day! Or being so drunk I fell asleep in my car only to wake up to one of my friends screaming I am gonna be late for work! Laughing,Flirting and dancing the night away!- That's what ones 20's should be about LOL damn I wish I Could back to those days ! Those were the good ol days and I would love to go back to that!!!! Screw it I am going to go back to that :) !

WHY????

The Vixen Manual: How to Find, Seduce, and Keep the Man You Want by Karrine Steffans.

So they allowed this stupid broad to write another book!!!! WHY??? Who the hell is going to take advice from someone like her ??? She sucked her way into the lime literally. I am a little bothered by this as you can tell! This is why women get such bad reps cause of Bitches like her! UGH Seeing this just put me in a funky mood!

New year resolutions

So I am sitting here paper and pen I cant for the life of me begin to tell you what my new year resolutions are going to be :/. I have goals I dont like resolutions cause they typically never really happen. But I am wondering if my goals are a little unrealistic. Here they go and tell me what you think:

1. Lose 50 pounds
2. Get more exposure in Event Planning
3. Go to Italy or at least start planning for it
4. Save $10,000 I want to look into purchasing a home
5. Volunteer more
6.Live, Laugh and love more
7.Go out more often to try new and exciting things
8.Take a pottery class
9.Go to Meditation at least twice a month
10.Spend more time with my sister

Now I know I said I had no clue but a lot of these carried over from 2009 :( and slowly popped back in my head :).

Holidays

I dont know about anyone else but I am ready for the holiday season to be over. I am tired of buying gifts, Standing in long lines etc. I swear next year I am not doing Christmas. It is so over rated! I want to get back to the days when family was all you needed and going broke wasn't necessary! At any rate I hope you all have a blessed holiday season :)

Cupid

So those who know me know I love a great love song. So I ran across this song originally sang by sam Cooke re-done by Melanie Fiona on a mixtape. It says all the things I've wanted to but never could! I listen to this song constantly ! Makes me stay hopeful on love!

Also Melanie Fiona is a real artist she's been around awhile and she's finally getting the props she deserves! Youtube the song to hear what I'm talking about! Enjoy!

Cupid draw back your bow And let your arrow go Straight back to my lover's heart for me

Cupid please hear my cry And let your arrow fly Straight to my lover's heart for me

Now I don't mean to bother you
But I'm in distress
There's danger of me losing all of my happiness For I love a boy who doesn't know I exist And this you can fix So...

Cupid draw back your bow And let your arrow go Straight to my lover's heart for me Cupid please hear my cry And let your arrow fly Straight to my lover's heart for me

Cupid with your arrow make his love strong for me I promise I will love him until eternity
I know between the two of us her heart we can steal help me if you will So...

Cupid draw back your bow And let your arrow go Straight to my lover's heart for me Cupid please hear my cry And let your arrow fly Straight to my lover's heart for me

Cupid
don't you hear me
calling you
I need you
Cupid
help me

Come on 2010

So I am so over 2009 I just want it to be 2010! This year has been nothing but a headache. I am blessed to be alive but gotdamn this year has been draining.

Now I am questioning the friendship I have with people. People I have been friends with for years have been testing me lately. So to keep my attitude in check I am going to stay the fuck away from these sneaky bitches. Cause I can feel it I am gonna snap on someone! And I promise you it wont be pretty!

Why can't I just have 1 normal friendship with someone? There is always some type of craziness either jealously or people are liars. And lately I have been feeling strange about Me and my BFF's friendship. We are totally different we went from being extra close to Idk. How do two people just switch? I think I have grown up and she has not :( this is not how this is supposed to be. I assume I am just at a different place in my life. And there is no talking to her about this I have tried it once and it was not a good outcome. I need suggestions on what to do?? Ahhhhh Somethings gotta give!

I just dont get people - I know I am aimlessly rambling but I needed to get that off my chest! *sigh*

FML did that really just happen???

So as I stand at the bus stop and attempt to stay warm I see this cutie staring in my direction. I am trying not to stare too hard and then I realize He is staring at the man standing next to me :( SIGH! Am I really being passed up for another male WTF IS GOING ON! I need answers this second. This shit is getting OUTRAGEOUS!

1. I love to be in love....Apparently even when the love isnt there anymore, never was or isnt good for me.
2. Im working on changing number 1.... Being alone isnt really that bad right?
3. My family is AMAZING.... Especially my Dad,Mom, Sister and her kids they keep me grounded!
4. I am like no other..... I am truly Ms. Fabulosity I am an amazing catch
5. I eventually want to move out of Boston ( Before im 30)
6. Stupid People and stupid shit bothers me
7. Over the years me and my cousins have gotten a lot closer
8. I think I might have ADD.... Well according to Nina I do LOL
9. When I am sleepy I Laugh for no reason at all for long periods of time
10.I just recently made a career choice.... Im going to be a nurse
11. I have 118 pairs of shoes and sneakers * Mainly shoes*
12. I want to have 2 kids.... Maybe even get married some day
13.Blogging is one of my favorite things to do now :)
14. I have a texture complex.... I dont eat certain things cause I dont like the way it feels
15. My friends are too good to be true sometimes I wouldnt change them for the world
16. Ive had the same Best friend for 14 years.

Ok 25 more random facts about me :)

1. I HATE feet..... I love pedicures though I get them every 2 weeks

2. Someday I will be someones mom and I will be GREAT at it !

3. I have been cleaning my closet out for 6 months and I am no where near done

4. Adriana and Jasiah are the best! They always amaze me I dont know what I would do without them

5. I can cook! Its sometimes hard for people to believe but ask my family I throw down in the kitchen :)

6. Im Going to Milan next year

7. Me and my sister are getting closer, its been an interesting 25 years with us and I wouldnt change it for anything ! Love her to pieces

8. I always wanted a younger sibling but my mom stopped after me I guess I was too much too handle or maybe she knew I was gonna be a diva !

9. I am excited about 2009 being over

10. I have a lot of trips planned for 2010 and its not even here yet! Miami, Texas, a Cruise and ATL

11. If you dont know me you probably dont like me cause I have a stank look and as many of my close friends have said before I got to know you I thought you were stuck up and a bitch which is partly true! I have to warm up to ppl!

12. Me and Theresa ( My BFF) have matching Tattoo's and have had them for almost 4 years ( Mine is on my leg and her's is on her arm and they have our names!)

13. I determined to meet Kimora Lee Simons someday.... She is my Idol by the way

14. My favorite books are Fabulosity and the BAP handbook ( Suprise Suprise)

15. I am turning into a loaner ..... I really enjoy being by myself (but still love all my friends)

16. I am having another b-day themed for sex and the city in 2010 in NYC again !! # years now its tradition

17. My family is quite big and I love it

18. I am making myself over for my 25th b-day.... did I mention already that I am AMAZING !

19. When I finish school I want to move somewhere hot,work 3 days a week as a nurse and build the house of my dreams

20. I love my current job! But I want to do something non health related I think

21. I have an obession with closets if I cant walk in it then its not for me... The new place I am moving has amazing closet space

22. One of my Favorite songs is If I aint got you by Alicia Keys I could listen to it for hours and not get tired of it

23. I want to have a Vegas wedding ...... Actually I want to get married in Cesars palace its so pretty!

24. All my expericnces have made me a stronger,better, wiser person

25. 2009 started off pretty bad and it has stayed bad! But 2010 -Its going to be a great fucking year!

Haters- One more good weekend before the weekend begins

A hater is someone who is jealous and envious and spends all their
time trying to make you look small so they can look tall.
They are very negative people to say the least. Nothing is ever
good enough!

When you make your mark, you will always attract some haters...

That's why you have to be careful with whom you share your
blessings and your dreams, because some folk can't handle seeing
you blessed...

It's dangerous to be like somebody else... If God wanted you to be
like somebody else, He would have given you what He gave them! Right?

You never know what people have gone through to get what they
have...

The problem I have with haters is that they see my glory, but they
don't know my story...

If the grass looks greener on the other side of the fence, you
can rest assured that the water bill is higher there too!

We've all got some haters among us!

Some people envy you because you can:
a) Have a relationship with God
b) Light up a room when you walk in
c) Start your own business
d) Tell a man / woman to hit the curb
(if he / she isn't about the right thing)

e) Raise your children without both parents being
in the home

Haters can't stand to see you happy.
Haters will never want to see you succeed.
Most of our haters are people who are supposed to be
on our side.

How do you handle your undercover haters?
You can handle these haters by:

1. Knowing who you are & who your true friends are
*(VERY IMPORTANT!!)

2. Having a purpose to your life: Purpose does not
mean having a job. You can have a job and still be
unfulfilled.

A purpose is having a clear sense of what God has called you to be.
Your purpose is not defined by what others think about you.

3. By remembering what you have is by divine
prerogative and not human manipulation.

Fulfill your dreams! You only have one life to live...when its your
time to leave this earth, you 'want' to be able to say, 'I've lived my
life and fulfilled 'my' dreams,... Now I'm ready to go HOME!

When God gives you favor, you can tell your haters, 'Don't look at
me...Look at Who is in charge of me...'

Pass this to all of your family & friends who you know are
not hating on you including the person who sent it to you.

If you don't get it back, maybe you called somebody out!
Don't worry about it, it's not your problem, it's theirs..
Just pray for them, that their life can be as fulfilled as
yours! Watch out for Haters...BUT most of all don't become
a HATER!

'A woman's heart should be so hidden in Christ that a man
should have to seek Him first to find her.'

Maya Angelou

A womans worth

In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the
question:

'What kind of man are you looking for?'

She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye & asking, 'Do you really want to know?'

Reluctantly, he said, 'Yes.

She began to expound, 'As a woman in this day & age, I am in a position to ask a man what can you do for me that I can't do for myself?

I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man...

or woman for that matter.

I am in the position to ask, 'What can you bring to the table?'

The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money.

She quickly corrected his thought & stated, 'I am not referring to money. I need something more.

I need a man who is striving for excellence in every aspect of life.

He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, & asked her to explain.

She said, 'I need someone who is striving for excellence mentally because I need conversation & mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man.

I need someone who is striving for excellence spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked...believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster.

I need a man who is striving for excellence financially because I don't need a financial burden.

I need someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded.

I need someone who has integrity in dealing with relationships. Lies and game-playing are not my idea of a strong man.

I need a man who is family-oriented. One who can be the leader, priest and provider to the lives entrusted to him by God.

I need someone whom I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him.

I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive...he just has to be worthy.

And by the way, I am not looking for him...He will find me. He will recognize himself in me. He may not be able to explain the connection, but he will always be drawn to me. God made woman to be a help-mate for man. I can't help a man if he can't help himself.

When she finished her spill, she looked at him.

He sat there with a puzzled look on his face . He said, 'You are asking a lot.

She replied, "I'm worth a lot".

15 Random facts about me

Thanks to starrla monae I'm gonna give you 15 random facts about me:

1. I hate odd numbers. (Its my OCD side coming out.)

2. I have a lotion fetish. I buy lotion at least once a week. ( literally my dresser is over flowing)

3. I watch crime shows daily! Just a reminder crime doesn't pay! So I cant do bodily harm to my ex cause I end up in jail & Orange is not my color!

4. I've been given 3 Tiffany bracelets *all the exact same*. Apparently my ex & friends never saw the one I always wear from my daddy.

5. I only want two kids. A boy and girl. ( Most people think I am never gonna have kids )

6. I am a shopaholic. I especially love nick knacks! ( I know its sounds like something an old lady would like)

7. I thought I would be married by now. Oddly I can't get a man to act like he got the good sense his momma gave him! *Kanye shrug*

8. I'm half west Indian and black.

9. My favorite thing to do when I'm in a relationship is to sleep in late on sundays and cuddle ! No phones or computer. Just me and him.

10. I hate white vans always put me in panic mode. All I can think about is silence of lambs when he snatched the chick while her catch watched!

11. I don’t eat pickles on sandwiches but I will eat them alone. If you put it on a sandwich I will not touch it! Something about soggy bread grosses me out.

12. I used to be extremely skinny and I wanted to gain weight now that I have gained I want to lose it.

13. My Favorite drink is Cold Peppermint tea YUM

14. I have one sibling even though I act as though I am an only child I love my sis to death.

15. 15 RANDOM Facts about myself is harder than I thought Jesus Christ !

I am dead - Lord have mercy I will be using this on my next potential Boyfriend

Name

Last
First
Middle

Address
City
State
Zip

Telephone:
Home #

Work#

Cell#


Date of Birth:

Age

SS#


Weight

Height



Ethnicity: (check)
Black

Hispanic

White

Other





Do you live with any of the following: (circle)

Grandmother
Parents
Mother
Father
Girlfriend
Baby Mama
Alone
Shelter
Wife
Auntie
Other




Any Children (circle yes or no)


Yes
No
If yes, how many


How many Baby Mamas?

If more than one, please name below.
Use separate sheet of paper if need more room.

1.

2.

3.


Ever been married (circle )
Yes
No
If yes, how many times?


Are you or have you ever been on the Down Low? (circle one)
Yes
No
(If you answer "Yes" STOP RIGHT HERE!!)

Do you owe child support?
Yes
No
Don't Know


*If your ex-wife is getting state benefits (childcare, food stamps, etc), then you owe somebody something. Especially tax payers. Stop here and go take care of your dang kids.



Education:

Did you graduate from high school? (circle )
Yes
No
Name of high school (if yes)


Have you received any of the following? (Circle One)
GED
Diploma
Nothing

*If you did not complete any of the above, please Stop here and return to school.

Any college? (circle one)
Yes
No
Still Enrolled:
Yes
No
Graduated

Have you ever been to jail? (circle one)
Yes
No
If yes, what for? (be very specific)




Have you ever been to prison? (circle one)
Yes
No


*If you have answered yes to the above question, please Stop here and call your P.O. immediately.

Employed? (circle)
Yes
No
*If no, please Stop here?



If yes, where and how long?


Do you have health insurance?
Yes
No





When did you last visit the dentist?


When was the last time you have been to the doctor? _
Yes
No
What for?


List any (all) illnesses. Use separate sheet of paper if needed.

Do you have or have you had any of the following? (please circle all that may apply)

Hepatitis

A or B or C
Herpes
Mononucleosis
HIV/AIDS
The Bird Flu
West Nile Virus
Crabs

Chlamydia
Gonorrhea
SARS
Head Lice
Ringworms
Boils
Sex Change

Shingles
Meningitis
Measles
Mumps
Ebola
Bunions
Virus
A Cold
Something that you can't spell:



*If you have circled any of these, Stop here do NOT turn in your application. See the doctor immediately!

Do you or have you ever used (ingested in any way) any of the following: (circle all that apply)

Crack/Cocaine
Heroin
Paint Markers
Ecstasy
Glue
Bad pills
Snuff

Anything under the kitchen sink



*Please use a separate sheet of paper to compile a list of goals and accomplishments.

By signing below, you agree that all of the information given above is true to the best of your knowledge. For my protection, you may be asked to provide the following information upon request: state ID, birth certificate, recent payroll stub, a recent clean bill of health from a certified physician or practitioner.

Falsifying information may result in termination of this relationship (if applicable), and a severe a** whooping by my project cousins Pookie, Ray-Ray, Darnell, Lil Krazy or all of the above.





Applicants Signature
Date:

Print Name :

Ten things I live by!

1.Maintain a grateful heart.
2.Tell the truth.
3.Insist on loyalty.
4.Travel light and travel far.
5.Have courage.
6.Discover the power of prayer.
7.Look for the best in situations but prepare for the worst.
8.Make sure you have money put away for a rainy day.
9.The answer is within.
10.Don’t dwell on the past.

Diva rules to live by 2009 and beyond

1. Aspire to be Barbie - the bitch has everything.

2. If the shoe fits - buy one in every color.

3. Take life with a pinch of salt... A wedge of lime, and a shot oftequila.

4.In need of a support group? - Cocktail hour with the girls!

5. Go on the 30 day diet. (I'm on it and so far I've lost 15 days).

6.When life gets you down - just put on your big girl panties and dealwith it.

7.Let your greatest fear be that there is no menopause and this is just your personality.

8. I know I'm in my own little world, but it's ok.They know me here.....

9. Lead me not into temptation, I can find it myself.

10.Don't get your knickers in a knot, it solves nothing; and makes youwalk funny.

11.When life gives you lemons in 2009 - turn it into lemonade then mix it with vodka.

12.Remember every good looking; sweet, single male is someone-else'sex-boyfriend