The comeback

Maybe men can answer these questions for me: Why do you all break up with women that are really into you and care about you? Then months or years later after you been doing whatever you want to do decide you want to try again? Not only try again, but expect us to be all excited and eager to see you? After y'all realize the grass isn't always greener on the other side Insert 80/20 rule here. I am not saying all men are this way, but quite a few are. And it bugs the shit out of me! For example: Dude: this isn't working? I dont want to be in relationship. Blah, Blah ,bullshit ,bullshit. It's not you its me. Then 2 months later you all of sudden have a change of heart??? Go all the way to hell and get out of my face. It doesn't work that way! This post stems from a message I just got from a very closed chapter in my life! BLAH

****BUCKET LIST ****

After a legnthy conversation with a friend I decided to complete a bucket list! Happy reading! I am hoping I can complete this all :)


Adventures/Travel:
1. Relocate to another state
2. Go to Italy
3. Spend a week a canyon ranch.
4. Go to Africa
5. Go to Dubai
6. Go to Montreal
7. Go to Budapest
8. Go to Crete
9. Go to Prague
10. Take a 1 week vacation alone.
11. Earn 100,000 Travel miles.

Career:
1. Become a manager
2. Become an executive
3. Own my own Business


Community
1. Start a non profit for troubled youth.
2. Donate a large sum of money to a foundation.

Creativity:
1. Create a website on my own from scratch.
2. Create a blog that people read on a constant basis and enjoy.
3. Create a scrape book about my life.


Entertainment:
1. See a debut on Broadway.
2. Go to an award show.
3. Go to a live sitcom or Day time TV taping.
4. Be a contestant on a game show.
5. Ride in a limo with all of my friends.
6. Take an Indian cooking class.
7. Watch all of the God father movies in one sitting.

Family:
1. Have a family reunion with all of my extended family.
2. Have a healthy baby.
3. Watch my child graduate from college.
4. Create a family scrapbook.
5. Having my family tree created.

Finances:
1. Pay off my debt.
2. Save 100,000 for a rainy day.
3. live a off a $5.00 dollars a day for a year straight to see how much money I Can save.


Hobbies:
1. Build a hope chest for my daughter. ( if I have one)
2. Take up Photography

3. Learn:
4. Learn to play an instrument.
5. Learn to belly dance. Learn how to drive a stick shift car.
6. Learn to speak another language.
7. Get a PhD

Love:
1. Find my true love.
2. Get married.
3. Go on a blind date.
4. Celebrate a major marriage milestone -like 25 years of marriage.

Personal:
1. Spend a 1 week alone every year.
2. Get rid of clutter and only keep what truly matters.
3. Read the bible cover to cover.
4. Complete a marathon of some sort.

Relationship/ Love Challenged

Hola!

So I have self diagnosed myself recently I am relationship challenged. Like I am not relationship normal. This is a real issue LOL I googled it theres books and all types of shit! I am in some weird type mood lately cause I am not bothered by this at all. I am enjoying the single life! I miss sex, but hell since I am not good at that no strings attached bullshit! I guess I will put my celibacy into overdrive! * sigh *

Nonetheless this explains all the bullshit I have been thru I am relationship unstable! Even tho this is no laughing matter I cant help but laugh! And make a face like this:



* Shrugs whistles and walks away*

Update and shit !

So.... I am single again oddly enough 1 month later I don't feel nearly as bad as one would think! I mean I have my days, but today its one of those days I feel on top of the world!

From this last relationship I learned people don't deserve 2nd chances! I gave a Wes a second chance and he let me down!
So today I deleted Wes's # and all of text messages! I mean after 30 days he hasn't once tried to contact me so wtf is the point of keeping his shit right?! I just find it disturbing we spent 6 months with each other and not one call or text. I love how men minimize shit! Nonetheless I am glad I feel better and have no desire to even want to be friends or anything else with him! I wish him the best in his future! :)

In even better news in 68 day I will be in Dallas. Weird I went to dinner with the girls today and the hostess had this accent! So we all asked where she was from and go figure she was from Dallas Texas! I was so excited to hear her say Dallas! I asked why she left? She stated she wanted a change, but Dallas was a fabulous city and I was gonna love it! If that isn't a sign then I don't know what is!