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So I watched this at my sister's house on Christmas eve and it opened my eyes to the fact that it is not only me and my friends that go thru this BS about marriage and a decent relationship.But plenty of other women! Please read the comments men left my mind is seriously blown right now. Please Cut and paste the Link into your browser.


http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshhLJWM5k2Og6Y5FU9h

Thanks,
Candice

Clubbing Days ( A trip down Memory lane )

So I am work and the radio station I listen to just played Drop down and get your eagle on :) By Nelly Awwww that brings me back to nights at the Roxy's with the girlies. So many good memories! For example Being so drunk I had to catch a ride with someone and go back and get my car the next day! Or being so drunk I fell asleep in my car only to wake up to one of my friends screaming I am gonna be late for work! Laughing,Flirting and dancing the night away!- That's what ones 20's should be about LOL damn I wish I Could back to those days ! Those were the good ol days and I would love to go back to that!!!! Screw it I am going to go back to that :) !

WHY????

The Vixen Manual: How to Find, Seduce, and Keep the Man You Want by Karrine Steffans.

So they allowed this stupid broad to write another book!!!! WHY??? Who the hell is going to take advice from someone like her ??? She sucked her way into the lime literally. I am a little bothered by this as you can tell! This is why women get such bad reps cause of Bitches like her! UGH Seeing this just put me in a funky mood!

New year resolutions

So I am sitting here paper and pen I cant for the life of me begin to tell you what my new year resolutions are going to be :/. I have goals I dont like resolutions cause they typically never really happen. But I am wondering if my goals are a little unrealistic. Here they go and tell me what you think:

1. Lose 50 pounds
2. Get more exposure in Event Planning
3. Go to Italy or at least start planning for it
4. Save $10,000 I want to look into purchasing a home
5. Volunteer more
6.Live, Laugh and love more
7.Go out more often to try new and exciting things
8.Take a pottery class
9.Go to Meditation at least twice a month
10.Spend more time with my sister

Now I know I said I had no clue but a lot of these carried over from 2009 :( and slowly popped back in my head :).

Holidays

I dont know about anyone else but I am ready for the holiday season to be over. I am tired of buying gifts, Standing in long lines etc. I swear next year I am not doing Christmas. It is so over rated! I want to get back to the days when family was all you needed and going broke wasn't necessary! At any rate I hope you all have a blessed holiday season :)

Cupid

So those who know me know I love a great love song. So I ran across this song originally sang by sam Cooke re-done by Melanie Fiona on a mixtape. It says all the things I've wanted to but never could! I listen to this song constantly ! Makes me stay hopeful on love!

Also Melanie Fiona is a real artist she's been around awhile and she's finally getting the props she deserves! Youtube the song to hear what I'm talking about! Enjoy!

Cupid draw back your bow And let your arrow go Straight back to my lover's heart for me

Cupid please hear my cry And let your arrow fly Straight to my lover's heart for me

Now I don't mean to bother you
But I'm in distress
There's danger of me losing all of my happiness For I love a boy who doesn't know I exist And this you can fix So...

Cupid draw back your bow And let your arrow go Straight to my lover's heart for me Cupid please hear my cry And let your arrow fly Straight to my lover's heart for me

Cupid with your arrow make his love strong for me I promise I will love him until eternity
I know between the two of us her heart we can steal help me if you will So...

Cupid draw back your bow And let your arrow go Straight to my lover's heart for me Cupid please hear my cry And let your arrow fly Straight to my lover's heart for me

Cupid
don't you hear me
calling you
I need you
Cupid
help me

Come on 2010

So I am so over 2009 I just want it to be 2010! This year has been nothing but a headache. I am blessed to be alive but gotdamn this year has been draining.

Now I am questioning the friendship I have with people. People I have been friends with for years have been testing me lately. So to keep my attitude in check I am going to stay the fuck away from these sneaky bitches. Cause I can feel it I am gonna snap on someone! And I promise you it wont be pretty!

Why can't I just have 1 normal friendship with someone? There is always some type of craziness either jealously or people are liars. And lately I have been feeling strange about Me and my BFF's friendship. We are totally different we went from being extra close to Idk. How do two people just switch? I think I have grown up and she has not :( this is not how this is supposed to be. I assume I am just at a different place in my life. And there is no talking to her about this I have tried it once and it was not a good outcome. I need suggestions on what to do?? Ahhhhh Somethings gotta give!

I just dont get people - I know I am aimlessly rambling but I needed to get that off my chest! *sigh*