Mind Boggled, Confused and disappointed !

So I had a very interesting convo with a friend of mine last night she shall remain nameless.We were talking about how small our state is and how you run the risk of dating people who know each other .(I would never have this issue because I don't date men in Boston and I haven't for a while.) Anywho my friend proceeds to say she would just rather mess with the hoe dude she is already dealing with rather than to have to date someone and realize he's a cheating ass months later! So you mean to tell me your gonna stay with a nothing ass dude because you already know he's a dog? And potientally bypass someone who is healthy for you out of comfort of knowing what you already got! Needless to say by the end of this convo my jaw is on the ground and I felt like I was on a different planet or an outsider looking in! I try not to judge other folks love life cause mine is no where near perfect, but come on when you say outlandish shit like this I think I am entitled to pose my opinion!

Do women really think like this??? Do you really feel like you have to settle to be happy or content? I personally could never accept that a man is going to cheat and I am going to stay or accept it.Dont get me wrong I when I was younger I stayed in a sitiuation that I knew was wrong for me but with age comes wisdom! I would rather be alone than miserable any day!

Lord I am praying for these chicks cause some women got the game twisted at 25 +! How did things ever get this bad? When did some women give men this much power to brainwash them??? I would love to hear your opinion on this cause I am baffled and confused!